Throwback: Winner or Whiner?
This article was first written on 30th July, 2016. That was during the earliest periods of this blog. The whole point of it was that people mostly belong to two categories: Winners or Whiners. The Winners do what they can do to eventually get what they want, while the whiners complain about everything seeking for what to blame for their woes.
I hope you enjoy it being reshared today. Here it is:
The winners are those who do things. They are those who understand that success doesn't come through wishes. That it only comes as a result of one's own work and sincere effort.
The winners are those who do not beg for what they want or wait till it is given to them or handed on a platter. The winners are those who "take" what is rightfully theirs. They don't blame anybody but themselves for whatever they experience in Life.
The whiners are those who don't do. They are the day dreamers who continue to wish and hope for things they want without taking any practical step towards achieving them.
The whiners are technically beggars. They keep waiting to be given. And when they're not given, they find something to blame about their predicament. They wait for someone to come and save them from their predicaments forgetting that they are responsible for their own fate.
The number one thing that separates the winner from the whiner is MINDSET. The mental orientation of a winner is that of never quitting, taking responsibility and always going forward.
The whiner quits too easily, avoids responsibility and finds safety in rewinding back to old ways.
How would your life change for the better if you are a whiner? How would you experience new things when you've decided to stay in your old ways?
A wise man said that it is stupid to expect different results while doing the same things over and over again. Your life cannot change if you keep doing the same things you're doing. The old stays with the old!
You must dare to embrace the new, the risk and the challenge. If you want anything, you go out there and take it. You don't kneel down and beg to be given. You take it without begging by putting in the work you have to put in to get it.
Because when you work for something, you DESERVE the results. When you've earned anything, how can you still beg for it? If you've worked for something, you'd be very proud to take it with ease of course.
On the contrary, when you wait for something to be given to you, you're at the mercy of others. You're not in control, you stick out your hands and you beg because you know you don't deserve it. You shouldn't be doing that it's shameful!
Bold winning is an art of taking what rightfully belongs to us by earning it rather than begging and complaining.
Once again, Keep Winning!