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HOW EASILY DO YOU QUIT?

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Here is a story I found in Napoleon Hills famous book, Think and Grow Rich. He tells us the story of R. U. Darby.
"Darby’s uncle had gold fever, so he staked his claim and started digging. After a lot of hard work, the uncle found a vein of ore, so he

WINNERS VS WHINERS? (WHICH ONE DO YOU BELONG?)

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The winners are those who Do. They are those who understand that success doesn't come through wishes. That It only comes as a result of one's own work and sincere effort.
The winners are those who do not beg for

NEVER BE TOO SCARED TO FAIL

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I remember a friend of mine back in my street some years ago. He was a good guy and had integrity. His only problem back then was that his English was really terrible. 
Anytime he made a grammatical error whenever he tried to speak English to me and

10 SUREFIRE WAYS TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY

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#1 Don't care too much about what people  would say or think Many unhappy people are always worried about what people are thinking or saying about them. This makes them feel timid and reluctant to try out some things which could transform their lives.
Worrying about the opinions of other people won't change anything. You can never be sure

YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE

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Some people believe that they don't have control over how their life turns out. Some others think that what will be will be, so why bother to take any action? Others believe that they are destined to live a particular kind of

PAYING ATTENTION

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One of the skills that separates the winners from the losers is the art of paying attention. Losers are too impatient and rigid to pay it, whereas winners understand that their ultimate success depends on it.
There is a story about a guy who landed a great job with a top multinational company,

WHY YOU MUSTN'T GIVE A DAMN

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Look here my friend, I want you to know this; there will always be those who care about your existence and those who don't, those who will love you and the ones who will hate you.
There will always be those who value and appreciate what you do and those who do not,

TO TRUST OR NOT TO TRUST?

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I don't know why I'm particular about trust, but I just have to write this otherwise it's gonna explode inside of me.
Our daily existence on this planet is a function of our trust for one another. Without trust, we

BECOME A CREATOR

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What are you creating in this world? Look around you. All the very successful people you know are creators of something. They all offer value to you!
In football, the players create the game by their actions on the pitch while the spectators
are entertained. These players are well paid for their efforts while the spectators just enjoy the game. Spectators pay with their money and time.
In engineering, engineers get paid for creating and designing systems and machines, while the consumers of their products pay them for it.
Doctors create by applying their skills learnt in medicine to effectively take care of the sick(consumers). They get paid by the consumers for it.
Comedians, Actors and Musicians entertain you with their skills and get paid with consumers money, while the consumers are just entertained.
Restaurant owners get paid by their consumers for the services they create and Banks are thriving because they create value for their clients.
I believe by now you're getti…

THOUGHT COMES FIRST

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Have you ever thought about why you were born naked into this world without anything like weapons, tools, books or anything else but your mind?

If you've ever thought deeply about that

DO MORE, TALK LESS

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The world is filled with so much talkers. People who do nothing but talk, talk and talk with their time. You find these people in the marketplace, at the grocery store, at the bar, in the sports center etc.
Many people are ready to give you a truckload

DON'T BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU'RE TOLD

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Once upon a time in an African forest, a famer found an eagle's egg in a nest which had just fallen from a tree. He took it home and kept it in amongst his chickens under a brooding hen.  When the egg hatched, the mother hen

FACE YOUR FEAR, LIVE YOUR DREAMS

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Consider this short story: 
One day, a young buffalo named Jack approached his father and asked him if there was anything that he should be afraid of. “Only the lions my son,” his father responded.
“Okay, I'd be careful around lions. If I see anyone, I’ll turn and run as fast as I can,” said Jack. “No, that’s the worst thing you can do,” said Jack's father. “Why? They will kill me," asked Jack
The dad smiled and replied, “Jack, if you run away, the lions will chase you and catch you. And when they do, they will pounce on you and tear you apart”.
“So what should I do?” asked Jack.
“If you ever see a lion, stand your ground to show him that you’re not afraid. If he doesn’t move away, show him your sharp horns and stomp the ground with your hooves. If that doesn’t work, move slowly towards him. If that doesn’t work, charge him and hit him with everything you’ve got!”
“That’s crazy, I’ll be too scared to do that. What if he attacks me back?” said the startled young buffalo. …

SUCCESS TIP: DO NOT MAKE HASTY ASSUMPTIONS

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It is common for man to easily make assumptions, form theories and jump into conclusion about things he's not even sure of. 
A major cause of this is that it suits man's ego to have that sense of pride in knowing everything. But this is more folly than wise.
You've often heard some quotes like "All men are the same" "All women are the same" , "All men are liars, all women are deceptive" etc.. 
All these fake postulations are made by people who have had few experiences and the "generalized" it to the whole. Truth is you cannot make such statements except you have experienced the character of either all men or all women.
Some claim that some things are impossible and that you shouldn't try. But many things have been invented by people who didn't believe in assumptions formed made others. It was once thought flying was impossible and that the earth was round. What's up with those postulations now?
The danger in making t…

HOW TO CREATE THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS

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If I asked you what kind of dreams and visions you want for your life, I'm sure to hear a good number of nice things. We want to be wealthy, healthy, happy, comfortable, free, go for a vacation, love, travel around the world.. The list is endless. 
We all have great dreams for ourselves, we want to live life to its fullest and enjoy it, but

LIVING IN THE PRESENT MOMENT

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Most of the problems we face in our lives today can be effectively traced to not living in the present. Why? Because most people would rather live in the past or in the future.
The only time that always exists presently is "NOW". It's not yesterday and it's not even tomorrow. You're always existing in the present. You can't bypass it and actually live