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The Active Ones Take It All

Hey, you! Yes.. you! Are you still delaying that wonderful idea you may have been nursing for a while now? Have you been hesitating on starting that business, journey, career, course, or work you have  to do?

Have you identified a favorable opportunity, but you've not been able to utilize it because you're thinking too much about it? Then this article is for you. I want you to bear this at the back of your mind: "The active ones take it all."

Life offers everything to the ones who are active. Life doesn't care about your intention or what you're thinking of doing. It cares about what you're doing!

Let's say there are two people who intend to start a similar business, let's say it's a small restaurant. One of them has been nursing the idea for a long time and is very passionate about it. He keeps thinking and thinking of how to start up the business and get everything ready but has done nothing yet.

The other one also nurses the idea though he…

Stay Hopeful And Don't Worry

stay hopeful and don't worry

"An important lesson that we can all easily get out of life is to make sure that we live each day to the best of our ability, not live each day worrying about every difficult challenge that we face. We have to consciously tell our subconscious to think of things that motivate us instead of things that deflate us.

When you find yourself starting to think negatively about a situation that is prominent in your life, quickly turn the negative thought into a positive thought.

Remember that each day is a new day, a new day in which you can make a new beginning, so throw off your worries before you throw off your clothes at night, and make every new day better than the day before."
-Niyi

Worrying cannot be beneficial to a bold winner. A bold winner only thinks about ways to fulfill his life's mission, he doesn't worry. Worry is needless concern over something which saps your energy and keeps you thinking negatively about your ambitions. You should never spend a second worrying. 

Worrying disturbs your piece of mind and leaves you with only mental anxiety. It troubles you, it leaves no room for creative thinking. It just keeps showing you reasons why you're not going to be successful or why something will turn out badly.

Don't be a person who worries. Whatever has happened in the past has happened. Worrying over them is just useless. Whatever possibilities lie in the future shouldn't worry you. Make the most of the present time and do what you have to do to get to wherever you want.

Don't let a worrying mind stop you. Come out new every moment. Don't be trapped by your past errors and misgiving. Make sure you're flexible enough to switch your mood to be happy once again whenever you're trapped by worry.

As Niyi rightly pointed out, every day is a new day. Drop off the old version of yourself and strive to put on a new positive, hopeful, cheerful, happy and inspired self.

Keep winning!


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