Skip to main content

Featured post

The Active Ones Take It All

Hey, you! Yes.. you! Are you still delaying that wonderful idea you may have been nursing for a while now? Have you been hesitating on starting that business, journey, career, course, or work you have  to do?

Have you identified a favorable opportunity, but you've not been able to utilize it because you're thinking too much about it? Then this article is for you. I want you to bear this at the back of your mind: "The active ones take it all."

Life offers everything to the ones who are active. Life doesn't care about your intention or what you're thinking of doing. It cares about what you're doing!

Let's say there are two people who intend to start a similar business, let's say it's a small restaurant. One of them has been nursing the idea for a long time and is very passionate about it. He keeps thinking and thinking of how to start up the business and get everything ready but has done nothing yet.

The other one also nurses the idea though he…

Maintain A Positive Attitude

Positive Attitude

"One big hurdle we all must get over in our lives is dealing with the impossible. As we face life encountering both the good and the bad, we have to realize that a positive attitude is the key to becoming invincible. That is the key to accomplishing impossible situations.

We have to confront the most absurd of opportunities, take the boldest of risks, and be who we are at our core day in and day out.
We also have to come to realize that the only scenario in which the "impossible" will ever be able to defeat us, is when we start thinking in a negative and defeated manner.

So, stay positive in everything you do, never stop trying, and believe wholeheartedly that failure is not a permanent option!"
- Niyi

Maintaining a positive attitude about life is a must for bold winners. A positive attitude keeps you in the best frame of mind at all times. It keeps you happy, hopeful and determined. A negative attitude does the exact opposite. It makes you worried, unhappy and pessimistic.

In life, we face ups and downs. Sometimes we succeed and at other times we fail. We conventionally tend to only feel very positive when we succeed and feel down whenever we fail, this is what most people do. They only feel positive when the are excelling.

However, to really rise above mediocrity, one must learn to maintain a positive attitude both on good times and bad times. Because, as a bold winner you cannot be subject to the rule that says you should feel sad and disappointed during any failure.

If you feel down and disappointed during any failures, that could hinder your success. When you dwell on feeling negatively during your bad days, you fail to see your opportunities. You fail to see other ways to achieve success from that failure. Your resolution to succeed now becomes delayed and obscured because your mind is occupied by negative emotions.

In contrast, if you understand the power of maintaining a positive attitude always, you will not be moved or discouraged by any failures, no matter how many times you fail. You will remain optimistic as you're always seeing a way forward with every setback. Your mind becomes so focused on your goals that no failures can bother you at all.

This mind with an undeterred focus is the thing that separates winners from losers. Maintaining a positive attitude makes your mind fixated on your goal with that undeterred focus.

You will win every time and you will always be happy because this attitude takes you much higher than any challenges that may come your way!

Remain positive and keep winning!

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Why You Should Be Careful With An "I don't Care" Attitude

You've probably heard people say things like "I don't care what anybody thinks." "I don't give a damn" "I don't care anymore" and other words like that. The "I don't care" attitude is becoming quite popular and of course it comes with a good feeling.

This attitude can actually be helpful if it motivates you to keep trying where other people have failed or it helps you become a better and a much happier person. But sometimes, this attitude can arise out of pure stubbornness and laziness.

Many relationships among people have failed because of this. Some people don't care at all about another person but just themselves and their needs forgetting that their needs are dependent on the needs of other people.

It is important to actually care to know the truth and properly look into our consciences before we adopt an I don't care attitude towards anything. Are you adopting it because you are convinced you're on a right t…

What Happened To Victor Pride of Bold and Determined?

So after so many months without visiting his blog, I tried to visit boldanddetermined.com for some fired up articles only to get a surprise.. that the blog has been permanently closed and then there's podcast following from Vic Pride (now Brother Nicholas) claiming that He's now Born again and has given his life to Jesus Christ.
I didn't know how to feel. Whether it's good news or bad news will ultimately be up to us, but I just think I should share my thoughts about it here. But before that a brief background story.
Victor Pride has been running the motivational blog bold and determined since 2011 and he has actually inspired and motivated a lot of young men and women to break out lazy attitudes/habits to live the life of their dreams. 
Even though, I never really agreed with quite a number of his ideas about God, religion, the government, women etc, I still saw the truth in some of the things he said. And he had a very unique way of writing with gives you that adrenalin…

The Definition Of A True Woman

Previously, I wrote an article on the definition of a true man. It would be fair enough to also write and article for the women who read this blog.

Women are beautiful, lovely and sensitive creatures way different from men in a lot of things both mentally and physically. They are special in their own way and also play very important roles in our society.

Just like in the case of the men, value systems seem to be changing for women too.

Most women seem to rate themselves these days based mainly on their looks. They spend so much time and money in ensuring they look very good, clean and posh. They can do anything to look attractive and get attention.

Some even go to the extent of almost going nude on social media just to feel good about themselves and get reassuring likes.

Painfully, most of these same women don't pay attention to what is inside of them. They often neglect the unseen qualities which make them who they truly are.

There are some women who boast about how many men the…