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The Active Ones Take It All

Hey, you! Yes.. you! Are you still delaying that wonderful idea you may have been nursing for a while now? Have you been hesitating on starting that business, journey, career, course, or work you have  to do?

Have you identified a favorable opportunity, but you've not been able to utilize it because you're thinking too much about it? Then this article is for you. I want you to bear this at the back of your mind: "The active ones take it all."

Life offers everything to the ones who are active. Life doesn't care about your intention or what you're thinking of doing. It cares about what you're doing!

Let's say there are two people who intend to start a similar business, let's say it's a small restaurant. One of them has been nursing the idea for a long time and is very passionate about it. He keeps thinking and thinking of how to start up the business and get everything ready but has done nothing yet.

The other one also nurses the idea though he…

Only You Can Stop You

only you can stop you

"If you don’t believe in yourself, no one will believe in you. No one can give you the resolution to succeed except yourself.

Obstacles can not stop you, problems can not stop you; and most of all, others can not stop you. The only one who can stop you is yourself."
 - Niyi

People could blame other things asides themselves for not being successful in life. But they all forget to blame the one person responsible for everything: themselves.

You have to believe in yourself and in your ability to excel at anything you decide to do. You've got to have faith in yourself and in your dreams.

When you look at it, you are the only one who has stopped yourself from getting anything you desire. Either you've not talked to persons you need to talk to or take actions you are meant to take.

The ball has always been in your court, but you've not scored because you're waiting for someone else to kick your shot for you. No one can do it for you. It has to be you. You have to create what you want by yourself.

It doesn't mean you must work alone or try to do everything yourself. It means that you have to take the initiative, call the people you need to call, go to seminars and trainings you need to get to, buy the things you have to buy, meet and discuss with minds you need to meet.

You've got to set things in motion by knowing that nothing else stops you more than yourself.

If you really want something to be done. Don't wait for anyone to do it, because you don't know how long it will take them to eventually do it and you don't know if they will even do it at all.

As a bold winner, you should always know better. Don't wait for a situation to turn around by itself or for something good to just happen. Waiting is too risky. Make it happen the way you want it to happen because no one else can stop it but you.

You only prevent yourself from getting what you want when you believe that other things can really stop you. Nothing does but yourself!

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