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Only You Can Stop You

only you can stop you

"If you don’t believe in yourself, no one will believe in you. No one can give you the resolution to succeed except yourself.

Obstacles can not stop you, problems can not stop you; and most of all, others can not stop you. The only one who can stop you is yourself."
 - Niyi

People could blame other things asides themselves for not being successful in life. But they all forget to blame the one person responsible for everything: themselves.

You have to believe in yourself and in your ability to excel at anything you decide to do. You've got to have faith in yourself and in your dreams.

When you look at it, you are the only one who has stopped yourself from getting anything you desire. Either you've not talked to persons you need to talk to or take actions you are meant to take.

The ball has always been in your court, but you've not scored because you're waiting for someone else to kick your shot for you. No one can do it for you. It has to be you. You have to create what you want by yourself.

It doesn't mean you must work alone or try to do everything yourself. It means that you have to take the initiative, call the people you need to call, go to seminars and trainings you need to get to, buy the things you have to buy, meet and discuss with minds you need to meet.

You've got to set things in motion by knowing that nothing else stops you more than yourself.

If you really want something to be done. Don't wait for anyone to do it, because you don't know how long it will take them to eventually do it and you don't know if they will even do it at all.

As a bold winner, you should always know better. Don't wait for a situation to turn around by itself or for something good to just happen. Waiting is too risky. Make it happen the way you want it to happen because no one else can stop it but you.

You only prevent yourself from getting what you want when you believe that other things can really stop you. Nothing does but yourself!

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