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The Active Ones Take It All

Hey, you! Yes.. you! Are you still delaying that wonderful idea you may have been nursing for a while now? Have you been hesitating on starting that business, journey, career, course, or work you have  to do?

Have you identified a favorable opportunity, but you've not been able to utilize it because you're thinking too much about it? Then this article is for you. I want you to bear this at the back of your mind: "The active ones take it all."

Life offers everything to the ones who are active. Life doesn't care about your intention or what you're thinking of doing. It cares about what you're doing!

Let's say there are two people who intend to start a similar business, let's say it's a small restaurant. One of them has been nursing the idea for a long time and is very passionate about it. He keeps thinking and thinking of how to start up the business and get everything ready but has done nothing yet.

The other one also nurses the idea though he…

Don't Let It Eat You Up

don't let it eat you up

You invested a lot of money into a business, turns out the business didn't go as planned and you lost everything. Well, it has happened. Instead of cursing or hating yourself and whoever introduced you into the business, it's best you don't let it eat you up. You got to understand that with renewed and smarter efforts you can still make tons of money and it's not the end of the world.

You may have been in a relationship with someone you thought was the love of your life. Everything went smoothly and wonderfully well. All of a sudden the love turns sour and there's a break up. You feel heartbroken, you feel depressed. Don't let it eat you up! It's not the end of the world either. You've learnt from the relationship and they're not the only persons in the world. You could meet better people.

You finished school and you didn't end up with the grade you wanted. You feel like a failure, you feel like you're not good enough. Don't let it eat you up! Grades on paper don't determine your destiny and your entire life. Your choices do. You can still become a successful person by finding your purpose and maximizing your talents.

Everyone is saying you're useless and valueless. No one believes in you. They don't see or have anything good to say about you. They attack you with all sorts of negative words and crap. Don't let it eat you up. Their words don't count. Your words about yourself counts. Don't believe their lies. Keep doing your best and someday they will find reasons to believe in you.

You've been searching for a job for many years without success. You feel wasted. You feel like there's no point applying. You feel depressed because you're under pressure and yet no results. Don't let it eat you up. Don't let it get into you. Just keep trying your best and believe  that someday things are just going to turn around. Believe, try out other ways, reevaluate your application processes and keep trying.

You've been wanting to get married, it seems no one's coming your way. It seems all the good guys or girls are taken. You're confused. You don't know how to go about it. Family is putting pressure on you to get married. You're feel down cause you've not found the right one yet. Don't let it get to you. Take your time, the right person will come at the right time. Be yourself, be nice and be sensitive. There's nothing wrong with you, just be a bit patient..

You're on the verge of something big and someone close to you dies. It's painful, it's bitter and it hurts. But don't let it eat you up. They're dead and no amount of tears can bring them back. They will be happier if you move on with your life and stop living in the past thinking too much about them.

Whatever it is that you're encountering in your life right now, don't let it eat you up. As long as there is life and we still breathe, there is always hope. Yeah, things may seem too tough, insurmountable and unbearable, but you mustn't let it eat you up and blind you from the good options which are always available to you.

Always see the brighter side of things, smile at your problems and challenges. Don't let them eat you up, keep winning!

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