The Heart of Christmas

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Merry christmas


Have a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Wishing a very wonderful Christmas to all bold winners to every one of you who celebrates Christmas. It’s a wonderful time of the year, and I hope you have a beautiful time this season.

I have met a few people who have told me they don’t like Christmas because, for them, they may be struggling with their families or come from dysfunctional homes. When they see families coming together during this period, it makes them feel like they are lacking something.

But you know what I always tell people who dislike Christmas for this reason? Your life doesn’t have to look like the lives of other people for you to be happy.

As a matter of fact, however your life may seem to you is the exact reason why Christmas exists, to let you know that regardless of your circumstances, situation, or condition, you are loved and worthy enough for Christ to take human form and die for your sins.

Now, even if you’re not a Christian or you don’t celebrate Christmas for religious reasons, other than feeling a certain way about your life or family struggles, see Christmas as a celebration of love, sharing, and service.

It’s not a time to wish your life were like someone else’s or to regret why you think your situation is different. No, it’s a call to celebrate yourself, love yourself, and recognize that your life doesn’t have to mirror another person’s for you to be happy or to be in a position to celebrate, spread love, and bring joy to others in whatever capacity you can.

Once you recognize that your life is okay as it is, of course there will always be room for improvement, but when it comes to situations beyond your control, like dysfunction in your family, separated parents, or relatives you don’t get along with, remember that this is also okay.

Things don’t have to be perfect for you to experience the joy of Christmas. There are people who are orphans and don’t even know who their parents or relatives are, yet they are happy nonetheless, and Christmas is a joyful period for them.

I don’t know why it came into my heart to write this, but the point of this post is for you to find enough reasons to realize that you are amazing just the way you are, worthy and deserving of love. It doesn’t matter what others think about your life or their opinions of you. As long as you are honest with yourself and working to improve, as challenging as that may be, you are okay. You are worthy of love, and the joy and significance of Christmas are for you too.

I want to wish you all a wonderful Christmas and a happy New Year ahead. 2026 is a golden year, make sure to set the tone with actionable New Year’s resolutions.

Keep winning!

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