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The Golden Key To Living a Successful Life: See your value!

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God is good! Believe this! See the value in yourself as human. The value God has already put in you! Don't see the doubts and limitations in your heart which the devil may have put in you through bad childhood experiences or general life experience from people you trusted! Focus on seeing the value that God deposited in you from the beginning! Then you will always be free to be at your best. The biggest trick of the enemy through your own mind is to make you keep on remembering past experiences in the past that make you feel like you're worthless. The more you keep playing the tape in your mind, the more you fail to see the value that God gave to you for FREE!  The strategy behind the trick is to make you forget that you have value of any sort by making you focus on the bad stuff.  You should rather be focusing on the good stuff.. which God has given to you freely and which is independent of anything of your own effort. The value is there! Just believe it and focus on it and yo

On Pride

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  Pride is one of the greatest drawbacks in the life of humans. It comes top on the list of the 7 deadly sins. It's so subtle and dangerous that it is often confused with self respect, love for self and even admiration for oneself. Pride makes you feel as though you are better than someone else by virtue of the things you have or what you have achieved. And that in itself subconsciously creates a need to expect better privileges than others because you feel you are more "special" than other people. Even the best of people often fall to this. There are ones who claim to be too spiritual to relate to other people. That too is often an unnoticeable form of pride. You know you have pride when you see other people as lesser than you are and that puts you in a position where you are very likely to become insensitive to them. Pride too can keep one from moving higher in life.. because God resists the proud and exalts the humble. Now there is something that must be pointed out. B

Faith is the Ultimate Form of Motivation

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  Hello winners, It's second of July in the second half of the year and I am really excited that you and I have made it thus far hale and hearty! Of recent, I have come to see the magic of faith and how for me, it's the biggest source of motivation.  To begin with, let us all define what faith means and this will be the basis of the entire post. A quick Google search on "faith definition" gives the first definition of faith as "complete trust or confidence in someone or something." Merriam Webster dictionary has a slightly different variation of that definition and defines faith as: "firm belief in something for which there is no proof." The Cambridge English dictionary defines faith as: "great trust or confidence in something or someone." Since there is no clear cut way to measure faith using any physical scale, the first two definitions reflect the definition of faith used in this article. With that established, why is it the ultimate f

Powerful Insights in May

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I experienced a period of clearer vision in May 2021. I had reluctantly joined Immerse Inner Circle, a coaching program designed for men to help them become more purpose driven. I actually did not see the need, but something told me to go ahead and join.  I have been blown away ever since and much more inspired to even do much more than I am doing in my life. The key takeaways so far have been the following: 1. Resource Mobilization: This refers to your ability to find the resources you need to bring your vision to reality, knowing how to find it, who you partner with and who you need to get on your team. Seeing the vision does not always mean you will have to be the one to execute it!  As a visionary, you must master the art of building relationships with people and leverage that relationship to push your vision forward. Resource mobilization is what separates people who are successful from people who are extraordinarily successful. Building your support system is not God's job, i

Know This About Expectations And Feeling Entitled

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I was inspired to write this blog post by a series of tweets from a friend @tukobos and these are the tweets:  “I've learned something in life: If a person has a victim complex, you can NEVER talk that person out of that victim mentality. Only that person can. If a person has a saviour complex, you can NEVER talk that person out of that saviour mentality. Only that person can.” “This is why I don't throw in my two cents with such discussions anymore. Because nothing I say will have an effect. But then, I beg of thee reading this: YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM YOU ALSO ARE NOT A SAVIOUR” “This is to women and this is to men, of all shapes, forms, colour, race, ethnicity, identity, tribe. Go out everyday knowing that the life you want is only the life you can get for yourself. No handouts. No one is entitled to help you.” “Go out everyday knowing that the life you want others to have is only the life they can get for themselves. Handouts must not come from you. You're not entitled to

Why Wanting To Be Liked By Everyone Is Nonsense

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  Hello Bold Winners! Pleased to share with you once again an interesting blog post that will stimulate your intellect. Today, I was inspired to write about "wanting to be liked by everyone". This is an important topic because I think that at some point or the other everyone of us is confronted with facing this ideology. Now, it's one thing to be liked by a lot of people and it's another thing to be liked by everyone. The former is possible, but the latter is something that currently looks impossible to accomplish which is why I'm of the opinion that one must not bother about it. A lot of people are worried about whether everyone likes them or not or what people think about them. While sometimes it's good to pay attention to what people think of you (as a guide to personal growth), it's useless to worry about everyone liking you. First of all, it's impossible to know if everyone likes you or not. To do this, you will have to ask everyone in the world w

Stay Focused!

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I saw this video clip online and decided to share it here. I think it paints a picture of what we all need to get much closer to our goals. For me the lesson is to stay focused and keep making steps towards your goal no matter how little. Progress is progress and it all adds up. If you are naturally fast, be fast and steady! Don't speed and the spend excess time relaxing and waiting. You must keep moving. Life not does wait for anybody and those times when you decide to rest a little longer than you should or waste time a little more might be crucial to you eventually achieving your dreams. It is also critical that you do not waste time staring at different things rather than your mission. We live in a world where different things crave our time, focus and attention. We must train ourselves to master the art of focusing on the things we want.  I'll end with this quote from the noble Martin Luther King jnr who was instrumental in the fight for equality and freedom among races. I