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It's Okay!

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Of course, I intended to share something this week. 😊 Today's article revolves around reassuring all my readers with the message, "It's Okay." Whatever you're facing, just keep in mind that "it's okay." It's tough to embrace this truth when everything around you seems chaotic, when things aren't unfolding as you hoped, or when you simply don't feel alright. But for a moment, set aside those thoughts and affirm, "It's okay," because it genuinely is. Every experience we encounter, no matter how challenging, ultimately guides us toward our highest destinies, molding us into the best versions of ourselves and empowering us to shape the universe. It's okay when things deviate from our plans because it often leads to something good. As a loved one once told me, "It's okay when things aren't perfect. Not everything has to be perfect. Sometimes, things don't go according to plan, and that's okay!" I un

Hard Truth on Forgiveness and Protecting Your Well-Being

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Life throws curveballs, and sometimes those curveballs come wrapped in people we love. We forgive them, hoping they'll learn and grow, but the same hurtful patterns keep repeating. It's a heart-wrenching dilemma - love battles disappointment. A friend recently shared a truth that stings: some people simply won't change. We cling to the hope that loved ones will magically transform, but this expectation can become a source of constant pain. Their personalities may be deeply ingrained, and hoping for a different version sets us up for further disappointment. So, what's the way out? The first step is acknowledging the harsh reality: change might not happen. Some individuals are manipulative, preying on our desire for a good relationship. We crave their approval, but their character flaws may not be compatible with our well-being.  Accepting this doesn't mean giving up hope entirely, but rather preparing for the possibility that they won't change. It's important

Throwback: Make Working Hard a Habit

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Happy Easter Celebration Winners! Been a real busy week. Grateful I can put in one more for the end of March. This week, will conclude with a throwback post first shared here in 2018. I hope you find it inspiring: There are many new ideas in the world nowadays that try to paint working hard as something unfashionable, difficult, or very unnecessary. You hear people say things like: "work smart, not hard," it is not necessary to work hard if you are smart, and other things like that which try to undermine working hard. Here on The Bold Winner's Blog, you'll get the undiluted truth which is: Hard work is beautiful. And you should make working hard a habit. If only you could pay a bit of attention to the people around you, you will find out that the majority of them don't really want to work hard enough to get what they want. They want it easy. They want to do very little and yet achieve tangible results. They make the mistake of calling this lazy attitude as smart w

The Power of Open and Honest Conversation: Sharing Burdens and Building Trust

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A lot of times, people are afraid of the painful, unexciting, or less glorious aspects of their existence: those tough moments where they faced difficulties or moments they are not proud of. These are things they wish they never experienced or things they are afraid to admit they do not have going on in their lives. This desire to be hush about these aspects of their lives burdens them, affecting them and how they relate to others, mostly unconsciously. The thing about these thoughts and feelings, which most people never share with anyone else, is that they are so powerful and can be unconsciously communicated non-verbally to others, affecting the way they perceive us and how they perceive themselves. Anxiety, mental stress, unexplained sadness: all are consequences of never communicating these deepest thoughts of ours. Therefore, sharing them is immensely beneficial, bringing us to the question of who we should share them with. That's where trust comes into play. These are your de

Artificial Intelligence and Why We Should Care

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Almost lost out on this week's writing. A lot has been going on with Artificial Intelligence also known as AI, and it seems to be sweeping across everywhere. Some people have concerns about understanding it, and a lot of people fear they may lose their jobs to it. So in this short article, I'll try to explain what AI is and how we can allay any fears about it, as fears always surround things we do not understand. First, AI is a field of study concerned with making computers have human-like attributes like understanding language, images, and video contents, and lots more. AI is powered by machine learning(ML), which is a technique of teaching computers how to learn from data without being explicitly programmed. It involves different of mathematical and programming principles. The foundation of all these lies in captured data. It is not rocket science or magic. Computers learn from data and using massive amounts of data, ML is able to identify patterns and make predictions based

Beyond Judgments: Embracing Empathy in a Diverse World

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This is one of those days when I don't know exactly what to write about, but I go ahead and write something anyway. There are a whole bunch of ideas that run around my mind sometimes, making me question existence and why we are all here. Questions like: Why were we born in different countries and places around the world? How are the families we were born into decided? How are the experiences we were meant to face in our lives arranged? And questions about exactly what we are doing here? It's not like it's the first time these kinds of questions have run across my mind, and I have, in the past, spent a great deal of time reading about some people's attempts to answer these questions while arriving at my own views. But the question still pops up once in a while. I feel that a lot of people will never have the opportunity to experience what other humans may be experiencing. And they might even find it very difficult to understand what those people are going through. For ex

Just Keep Going: Why Consistency Wins Every Time

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In the pursuit of personal and professional growth, we often chase the latest trends, the newest "magic bullet" promises. But amidst the ever-changing landscape of success, one fundamental principle remains constant: the power of consistency . Training yourself to be consistent isn't just about developing a good habit, it's about harnessing a superpower . It's the steady drumbeat that drives progress, the unsung hero of achievement, pushing us forward regardless of external factors. Consistency doesn't care about your fleeting emotions or the speed of results . It simply keeps going , one step at a time. It's the tortoise in the fable, slow but sure, ultimately leaving the hare in the dust. While the hare relies on bursts of inspiration and motivation, the tortoise understands that sustainable progress comes from consistent action . The journey towards consistency begins with understanding the power of your own mind . Mindset matters . Take time to stu