HOW EASILY DO YOU QUIT?

don't be a quitter

Here is a story I found in Napoleon Hills famous book, Think and Grow Rich. He tells us the story of R. U. Darby.

"Darby’s uncle had gold fever, so he staked his claim and started digging. After a lot of hard work, the uncle found a vein of ore, so he

WINNERS VS WHINERS? (WHICH ONE DO YOU BELONG?)

would you like to win boldly or whine like a baby?
The winners are those who Do. They are those who understand that success doesn't come through wishes. That It only comes as a result of one's own work and sincere effort.

The winners are those who do not beg for

NEVER BE TOO SCARED TO FAIL


Don't be afraid of failure. Make it a friend

I remember a friend of mine back in my street some years ago. He was a good guy and had integrity. His only problem back then was that his English was really terrible. 

Anytime he made a grammatical error whenever he tried to speak English to me and

10 SUREFIRE WAYS TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY

10 surefire ways to be happy

#1 Don't care too much about what people  would say or think
Many unhappy people are always worried about what people are thinking or saying about them. This makes them feel timid and reluctant to try out some things which could transform their lives.

Worrying about the opinions of other people won't change anything. You can never be sure

YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE

the choice is always yours

Some people believe that they don't have control over how their life turns out. Some others think that what will be will be, so why bother to take any action? Others believe that they are destined to live a particular kind of

PAYING ATTENTION


Your attention is gold

One of the skills that separates the winners from the losers is the art of paying attention. Losers are too impatient and rigid to pay it, whereas winners understand that their ultimate success depends on it.

There is a story about a guy who landed a great job with a top multinational company,

WHY YOU MUSTN'T GIVE A DAMN

You mustn't give a damn!


Look here my friend, I want you to know this; there will always be those who care about your existence and those who don't, those who will love you and the ones who will hate you.

There will always be those who value and appreciate what you do and those who do not,

TO TRUST OR NOT TO TRUST?

the real meaning of trusting other people

I don't know why I'm particular about trust, but I just have to write this otherwise it's gonna explode inside of me.

Our daily existence on this planet is a function of our trust for one another. Without trust, we

BECOME A CREATOR

What are you creating with your mind and body?

What are you creating in this world? Look around you. All the very successful people you know are creators of something. They all offer value to you!

In football, the players create the game by their actions on the pitch while the spectators

THOUGHT COMES FIRST

Thought comes first before actions

Have you ever thought about why you were born naked into this world without anything like weapons, tools, books or anything else but your mind?

If you've ever thought deeply about that

DO MORE, TALK LESS

action speaks louder than words

The world is filled with so much talkers. People who do nothing but talk, talk and talk with their time. You find these people in the marketplace, at the grocery store, at the bar, in the sports center etc.

Many people are ready to give you a truckload

LEARN TO SAY NO!

no could be the right answer sometimes


Have you ever wondered why it appears you don't always have enough time to accomplish your tasks? Have you thought about why you're not as effective as you want to be? It's simply because you've not learnt to say "No" to

DON'T BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU'RE TOLD



don't be quick to believe anything you're told

Once upon a time in an African forest, a famer found an eagle's egg in a nest which had just fallen from a tree. He took it home and kept it in amongst his chickens under a brooding hen.  When the egg hatched, the mother hen

FACE YOUR FEAR, LIVE YOUR DREAMS

Always Face Your Fears. Never run from it.

Consider this short story: 

One day, a young buffalo named Jack approached his father and asked him if there was anything that he should be afraid of. “Only the lions my son,” his father responded.

“Okay, I'd be careful around lions. If I see anyone, I’ll turn and run as fast as I can,” said

SUCCESS TIP: DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTIONS

assumption is the root of all heartache

It is common for man to easily make assumptions, form theories and jump into conclusion about things he's not even sure of. 

A major cause of this is that it suits man's ego to have that sense of pride in knowing

LIFE IS NOT TOO SHORT TO THINK DEEPLY AND DO THE RIGHT THING

life is neither too short nor too long

You know why most people fail to succeed and few people ever make it to the top? It's simply because most people don't think deeply  before they act.

Over and over again, life tries to tell us that there is no such thing as a shortcut. You either

HOW TO CREATE THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS


How to create the life of your dreams
If I asked you what kind of dreams and visions you want for your life, I'm sure to hear a good number of nice things. We want to be wealthy, healthy, happy, comfortable, free, go for a vacation, love, travel around the world.. The list is endless. 

We all have great dreams for ourselves, we want to live life to its fullest and enjoy it, but

LIVING IN THE PRESENT MOMENT

are you living in the present?

Most of the problems we face in our lives today can be effectively traced to not living in the present. Why? Because most people would rather live in the past or in the future.

The only time that always exists presently is "NOW". It's not yesterday and it's not even tomorrow. You're always existing in the present. You can't bypass it and actually live

Success Tips 2: Keep Quiet..Now is the Time!

Keep quiet,the time is now

Time is one of the most wasted resources on earth, you know why? Because there are very few people who understand that "Time is Money" and that "The BEST time to start is NOW!"

If you're still young and reading this,

Success Tips 1: The art of REPETITION (walking the walk).

the art of repetition for success


One afternoon,  I was walking up the stairs of a 3-storey building where I lived with a friend of mine. When we got to to the topmost floor, she asked me,"Nigel, how do you manage to climb up and down these stairs everyday?" "It's tiring", she added. I smiled, looked at her

Message to the feminine folk


It's obvious now that only thing most ladies know how to do now is just to look good and post their pictures on social media.
Asides these two, they don't have any other skills or goals they want to achieve. This is

Time, Focus and Dedication


The principles have always remained the same for winners, but very few people are willing to live by it and that's why there are few people who are really winning.

Believe in Yourself

Believe in Yourself

No one else has the ultimate power to change your life but you!

There are millions of people out there willing to tell you that you can't and give you millions of reasons why you should give up your "crazy" idea and quit, why should

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