The Attitude you must adopt

Winners share a particular kind of attitude which fires them up for success. The attitude entails the ability to reassure themselves of succeeding in what they plan to do even when the world tells them they can't.

This is the ability to use their own words to counter negative words bent on discouraging them from their goal.

The story of David and Goliath buttresses this point. Before David was allowed to go and face Goliath after the Philistines were taunting the Israelites, Saul tried to stop him by saying, "No, How could you fight him? You're JUST a boy AND he(Goliath) has been a soldier all his life".

Reread those words and see how it was targeted at instilling fear and doubt in David's heart. David demonstrated his winning attitude through this reply, "I HAVE killed lions and bears, and I WILL do the SAME to this heathen Philistine".

These words convinced him and was strong enough to convince Saul to let him go. We know how it all ended.

A winner must assure himself/herself of success. It requires a strong conviction to assure yourself of this. You can't do without a strong attitude of mind.

 It is key to force open the doors made of concrete and hard metal. 
Think about it and don't allow the words of others stop you from pursuing your dreams.

Learn to reply them with reassuring and carefully selected words that will convince them. Till next time. Remain a winner!

GET BUSY

Get busy, don't waste time waiting

You don't sit around waiting for love, success, money or anything good to just happen to you. 

You have to take your mind off when these things are going to happen and get yourself busy working on something that benefits your life and the lives of others. 

Anytime you're WAITING, you are LOSING valuable TIME. Waiting=Not doing anything = Time wasting/Delay of success. 

In the world of love, genuine love arises from the heart of someone who truly admires you and your characteristics when you're busy! 

You could be busy dancing, repairing stuff, cooking, dancing, acting, studying, teaching, designing, etc. It doesn't matter what it is as long as you have a passion for it. It is that passion for what you do that makes one fall genuinely in love with you. 

If you're idle and 'love' happens, it is usually based on lust/physical appearance. And my dear, once whatever mission behind that type of love is achieved, it easily crumbles like a pack of cards.

In the world of business and money, success usually don't happen immediately. You may need to put in a few years of dedicated hard work and get yourself busy with understanding the rudiments of your cash flow.

You don't get busy and stop to wait for success. You continue being busy with your business and someday a mega deal might pull through and success arrives on a platter.

Whatever you are waiting for and you are doing NOTHING about it will NEVER come. Success in any field comes at it's own time and leisure. It always comes as a surprise. It doesn't want you to worry about it or wait for it. 

The more you wait, the more you POSTPONE your success. Ever waited for an important call or text and it came when you were expecting it? It comes when you forget it and get busy right? 

Do something, Take up some responsibility, learn something, give something, create something and build something. Don't be idle and wait. The ball is in your court.

P.S On a side note, I hope you all know that one can be PERFECTLY busy doing NOTHING? Lol. Please, that's not the kind of busy I mean.
-Nigel

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